Nails

To dream about nails on hands and feet, of your own or others, means too much work and effort compared to the reward that was obtained. The dream shows that there is an intimate discontent. To dream about defective and painful nails suggests that there will be health affections or failures in many subjects. To dream about nails being pulled means danger of serious illness that can even lead to death if precautions are not taken. Dreaming about white nails, of your own or others, suggests that there will be various problems soon, both at home and in business. To dream about getting your nails done suggests that you will start business and deals apparently honorable, but these may be unproductive. To dream about cutting your own nails means that you will have high interest rates debts and also will have certain drawbacks in the family environment, but if other ones cut their own nails, means other people will harm you and that you have to act with caution, because we are exposed to diseases that require certain care. To dream about very short nails means that issues are going from bad to worse, you will face setbacks and failures with loss. Dreaming about other person’s long nails, suggests that one is going to be treated indifferent and your merits will not be recognized. To dream about having long nails may mean that you’re offending other ones by adopting vanity self-sufficiency attitudes. When nails are broken, it may mean that health is not good….

Pendulum

It symbolizes the rhythm and the passing of our lives as the clock, so its meaning is the same. To see a stopped clock in a dream means our evolution has finished or the clock’s owner doesn’t have any more hope, his lifetime has run out of time. If it’s a delayed clock it warns us to accelerate our pace of work if we do not want to see ourselves overtaken by events. If the clock delays it indicates that we should take things more calmly if we do not want to risk our health and our lives. If the hands turn madly or we dream we constantly look at the clock reveals our anxiety about the pace of life we lead. If it works well and the time it tells catches our attention the dream’s meaning it depends on the context and the marked time. For example: If we believe it’s all over for us and we see the clock ticking noon tells us that a new stage begins full of opportunities because we have a lot of life ahead….

Knife

Dreaming of one or more knives or any other white and light weapon announces the presence of hidden but dangerous enemies. If the weapon appears in the hands of someone who is acting in a threatening manner, it means that the dreamer’s enemies are willing to do the worst. If the dreamer snatches the knife from the other person it could mean that he or she will triumph over enemies and adversities in the immediate future….

Time, Clock

Time or clock in a dream symbolizes the rhythm and the course of our lives. To see a stopped clock in a dream is an omen that our evolution has finished or that the clock’s owner doesn’t have any more hope, his lifetime has run out of time. If it’s a delayed clock it warns us to accelerate our pace of work if you do not want to see ourselves overtaken by events. If the clock delays it indicates that we should take things more calmly if we do not want to risk our health and our lives. If the hands turn madly or we dream we constantly look at the clock reveals our anxiety about the pace of life we lead. If it works well and the time it tells catches our attention the dream’s meaning depends on the context and the marked time. For example: If we believe it’s all over for us and we see the clock ticking noon tells us that a new stage begins full of opportunities because we have a lot of life ahead….

Bull

To understand the difference in appearance between the bull and the ox is that the bull is brave, agile and fast, while the ox appears meek, docile and slow. The bull is traditionally a symbol of passion. To dream of seeing yourself chased by a bull (the more ferocious the worse), suggests that issues being handled will be complicated by your own carelessness and the intervention of hypocrites and envious people who want to do harm to you. If the bull is black, you should be very careful what you do and say, because the enemies are dangerous. If the bull is white, it suggests that eventually everything will be resolved favorably and your business will improve. If the black bull stops without attacking, that suggests that the dreamer has full control over his affairs. When a woman dreams of being chased by a bull, especially if it is white or light-colored, it simply means serious marriage proposals that does not suit her because soon she will receive another, more advantageous proposal. This may mean that the subconscious of the dreamer is working perfectly and the dream gives the answer that she longs to receive. When you are dreaming of being pursued by a bull, but managing to protect yourself, (for example behind a platform, a tree or a house) then this could mean that although your problems in real life seem serious, in the end everything will be fine, because of intense work and attention that you put. To dream that a bull chases and injures a person can mean that due to problems the dreamer will suffer. When you are seeing many fat bulls grazing peacefully, then it symbolizes prosperity and tranquility. When a woman dreams of two bulls that are fighting, then it is a sign of a fight between two females who are willing to win some important matter in their waking life. The fighting bulls could be an omen of dangerous enemies that announces as a result of your own indiscretions. When you are dreaming about fat and meek bull (an ox, animal work), then it symbolizes that you will be head of the household soon, or others will depend on your work. To dream that several oxen eat in a rich pasture indicates well-being and great friends, but if the oxen are weak because the pastures are poor, then it may mean that the dreamer will have problems, difficulties and even poverty, which will alienate the dreamer from some of his friends . When you are dreaming of a dead ox, then it means mourning in the family, losses and failures. When you are dreaming of oxen drinking water in a stream of clear water, then it announces that you will have a comfortable future, without achieving riches, besides the love of those around you….

Poison

Dreaming about being poisoned warns about negative influences that are trying to harm you. Dreaming of oneself poisoning others warns that you’re misjudging and unjustly judging others and causing them harm. If a young person is dreaming of himself poisoning a rival, it warns that he or she needs to clarify the situation with the partner in order to avoid greater damages. Dreaming of oneself throwing the poison to the ground means that current plans will be abandoned. Dreaming about other people handling poisons suggests that one is surrounded by dishonest people who’re trying to hurt him. Dreaming that one’s relatives are poisoned warns that they’ll suffer damage caused by others. Dreaming that an enemy, rival or competitor is being poisoned announces serious trouble for the dreamer. Dreaming of oneself poisoned, but managing to cure himself or herself, can mean that the dreamer will triumph over current problems, however serious they are. Dreaming that you are drinking poison by medical prescription means that you’ll have to undergo hardships and failures before achieving success….

Stone, Rock

Symbolizes resistance, tenancy and perseverance. If it is a volcanic stone, then it represents petrification or hardening of the senses. If it falls out from heaven like meteorites, then it becomes a sacred omen. If it converts into tiny stones or sand, then it symbolizes the dismemberment, disintegration, illness and death. Dreaming about the extension of stone, warns us about our inner strength and sterility. If the water or rain appears, then some situation will be softened and dissolved. If the territory is covered with stones, then it expresses our resistance to change and if we decide to walk over them, then it indicates that life will be difficult and painful. Dreaming about cleft stone portends illness or familiar division and if it is broken, then it portends the death of something, family, business or our own personality….

Sticker

To stick it over a package announces good news. Over luggage, a trip in the horizon. To read it over an object indicates unexpected expenses….

Wine

Dreaming about wine or any other alcoholic beverage suggests that one’s thinking about organizing a party or gathering with friends, which will benefit the dreamer. Dreaming about being alone drinking wine may mean that you’re taking a wrong turn in your current affairs or businesses. Dreaming about buying wine indicates selfishness and an intent to misappropriate something. If instead of buying it you’re selling it, then it warns you that you’ll be accused due to your misconduct. Dreaming about barrels or bottles of wine, but without touching it, suggest that there’ll be economic gains, but due to sorrowful family life. A young person drinking or selling wine in dreams shows that he has a dissolute life without aspirations of establishing a home. The dream will be a good or bad omen depending on the wine’s quality. If it’s good wine, then we should expect only good things, whereas if it’s poor quality wine, then it warns that we’ll be involved in fights and relationship problems….

Tavern

Dreaming of yourself in a tavern among people who are drinking is a bad dream that always announces problems in the near future and disrepute for misbehavior. Dreaming of yourself drinking inside a tavern may mean that enemies are waiting for a chance to attack somehow. Don’t accept any commitments. It also announces problems in the future, especially if the dreamer is under the influence of alcohol. You must avoid fighting. Also, dreaming of yourself in a tavern announces that you’ll suffer shame, moral guilt with family members, disappointments, job and business failures, etc. Dreaming of yourself as a bartender serving drinks may mean that your own behavior leaves much to be desired, which makes you have incorrect friends that may lead to serious problems….

Wineglass

Dreaming of drinking water in a wineglass indicates that there are mistakes being made in certain activities, which ultimately will produce negative results. Dreaming of old style wineglasses suggests that the dreamer will probably receive attention and perhaps favors from strangers. When a woman dreams of giving drinking water to a man in a wineglass it insinuates wishes of illicit pleasure….

Beer

Dreaming about drinking beer inside a tavern is bad omen, since it suggests troubles and difficulties are coming. Dreaming of drunk patrons in a tavern, drinking beer or any other liquor is always a warning that something is brewing against the dreamer, who is likely to be the victim of gossip and slander….

Milk

Dreaming of milk symbolizes maternal instincts and love, also denotes kindness, purity and human compassion for new acquaintances. Dream of drinking milk means domestic welfare and domestic food. It may also involve the need to strengthen your ties and relationships with others. Drinking milk also denotes generosity, honor and good feelings. Pouring milk indicates an open secret. Dream of poured milk symbolizes a loss of faith, opportunity and confidence. It may also indicate that your friends will cause you much disappointment and temporary unhappiness. Dream of bitter or impure milk denotes small problems that haunt you and give you distress. Dream of hot milk means you will experience struggle before achieving your rise to fortune. Dream of bathing in milk denotes a stable circle of trusted and pleasant friends….

Milk

To dream about many large containers filled with milk suggests an upcoming good run and/or good business, beneficial partnerships, etc. But if the containers have little milk, and worse if they are empty, it indicates the opposite. To dream that you’re loading a container with milk suggests that you work serving others and you aren’t comfortable with it because you aspire something better. To dream that you’re drinking milk is a favorable dream as it announces abundance for your home, leisure, good businesses and positive social relationships. To dream that you negotiate with milk suggests that soon your business will improve. To dream that you throw away milk warns that you’re wasting opportunities. To dream about decomposed milk announces that serious problems are coming. To dream that you’re trying to drink milk but can’t do so is a warning that you’re at risk of experiencing a material or friend loss. To dream that you’re bathing in milk symbolizes your desire for amusement, pleasures, luxuries, etc. This dream is more common among women who experience hardships and want to live in abundance. To dream that you’re milking a cow or any other animal insinuates that you´ll soon be presented good opportunities that you should take advantage of. If the milk falls outside the bucket it suggests that you doubt about taking those opportunities. To dream of sour milk symbolizes your own discomfort, restlessness and fear of getting sick. When you dream that you are drinking milk while eating other foods, especially if such food is seafood, it suggests that you fear that you may be required to perform unpleasant tasks, therefore this dream suggests an intimate rebellion against something that has not happened. To dream that you are the owner of a dairy and that milk is at your sight is a good sign and it suggests upcoming success in what you’ve been doing and happiness in your home and within your family….

Water

If you dream with: the sea or troubled waters, it means misfortunes, anger and sorrow. Calmed and clear waters indicate that you have peace of mind and good health. Walking on water is a sign that you will be successful in a business you’re about to start. If you dream about a place where water is scarce and you want to drink some, it means that you are going through a difficult and overwhelming period. Dreaming about swampy and marshy water is a sign of illness or near death. Throwing or pouring water is a premonition of a possible loss or theft. Jumping on a river or a stream of water indicates that you are trying to get rid of some situation that causes you stress. Drinking cold water means good events and joy. Drinking hot water is a sign for trouble and bad news….

Water

Water in language of dreams is very significant, it symbolizes life, feelings and the inner life of people. When the water is clear and clean, it announces such a long and happy life as our feelings. Mineral water symbolizes convalescence, health improvement. Holy water means physical and spiritual health. If the water is dirty or stuck, it usually presages disgrace and misfortunes of moral character. If water comes bitter, shady or yellowish, it predicts disease. Tainted means living with anger in your body. Reek, it means misappropriated goods. Stuck, it means loss of freedom. Blackish, it means unhappy marriage. Receiving water in a container indicates health. Receiving water without drinking it and store it indicates greed. If we bring water to another home and receive money, we are actually selling our honesty and purity. If we bring it without charge, it shows mercy and religiosity. Rainwater presages an abundant harvest unless it soaks the earth and disappear quickly, then it indicates loss of property and humiliations. If there are leaks in a house without rain, it announces mourning in that house. If it is just a leak, it means suffering and danger for the dreamer. If water runs through the walls, it indicates mourning relatives or friends. Seeing water flows inside a property of the dreamer, it announces great material prosperity accompanied by good feelings. Walking on water tells us we are going through a dangerous period. If we sink, we are in great danger. Seeing a lot of water stirred by strong waves indicates sorrows, if it reflects ourselves, it clearly indicates that we will achieve wealth, and if it reflects us more beautiful than we really are, it means we will find love in others. Drinking cold water presages health; and cold, disease. Taking a cold water shows incomprehension. A warm shower means happiness; and very hot means separation or divorce….

Vinegar

Seeing vinegar in dreams suggests that the dreamer has mental or emotional balance. Drinking vinegar announces that soon you’ll get ill from worrying about something that’s not up to you. Drinking it in dreams can also mean that difficulties will occur with a relative or friend, due to inconsequential chatter. Dreaming of adding vinegar to food indicates that you’re exaggerating your concerns….

Wash

To dream about water tanks of any type or size, for example laundry sinks, trays or basins where you can wash objects, suggests that problems or new interests that somehow affect the dreamer are close to come. To dream that you’re washing your hands and face with clean water suggests that you long to relate with new issues, business, etc. To dream that you’re washing your hands and face with dirty water, suggests that you want to have illicit and dangerous liaisons, either emotional or in your business. To dream that someone is washing suggests that something is now in its last stage and that you may be full of problems but will soon have new hopes and new motives. To dream about a laundress at work implies infidelity and illicit adventures, either yours or from someone else (partners, friends, family, etc.). When a woman dreams that she is a laundress, it symbolizes that she’s being unfaithful to her husband, lover or the people she works with. To dream that you’re washing your own clothes suggests that you’ll require great effort to achieve what you want. To dream about a young woman that is washing her clothes suggests upcoming joys due to new relationships. To dream that you’re in a laundry washing your clothes indicates that a disease that has not been properly treated will worsen….

Shake hand

To shake hands with close relative, it’s a sign of happy family life. To shake hands with strangers, it is a warning to be careful in your relationships….

Hand

If we look at ourselves with beautiful, neat and clean hands, the dream will be a harbinger of success in our plans. If the hands appear dirty, calloused or scratched, it symbolizes that many sacrifices will have to be made, in order to achieve our objectives, and if success does come, it will be after putting in a lot of effort. Some authors also think that the right hand corresponds to the rational and logical issues and the left hand to the unconscious and irrational issues….

Lamp

To dream about lamps, lanterns or any handheld device that serves to illuminate your way as you walk, suggests that you always keep an eye on your own affairs, which will benefit you at the end. To dream that you’re lighting a lamp suggests a successful start. To dream about a lighting object, but that it’s turned off, suggests that you’re experiencing mental confusion and that you don’t know which way to go, but if the light is dim, it suggests that you’re about to loose everything you’ve desired and so must work hard to avoid this and fix any errors. To dream that you’re holding a lamp in your hands and it falls to the ground, and even worse, it’s destroyed, suggests a serious risk of failure. On the other hand, if the lamp’s intensity increases, it indicates certain success in the immediate future. To dream that you’re cleaning a lantern, flashlight, etc., suggests that soon you’ll conquer the success you’ve been awaiting, but only if you carefully review the way you work. If you dream that you’re buying a lantern or flashlight suggests that you’ll have a good business or improve those that already exist. When a young woman dreams that she’s illuminating the face of her lover with a flashlight, it suggests that she doubts that he is the right man for her. If the light turns off, it means that the relationship will break up. To dream about lamps, flashlights, torches, etc., announces a future success in the matters being handled by the dreamer. To dream that you’re holding a flashlight or torch in your hands and are lighting the floor where you are walking suggests that you’re looking for ways to improve yourself or at least to feel confortable in your ongoing activities….

Bracelet

If young woman dreams of a beautiful bracelet placed on her arm, it suggests that she wants to get married, and this is likely to happen. If woman dreams that she has lost her bracelet, it indicates that she will soon have serious troubles with her boyfriend. If man or woman dreams of finding a bracelet, it indicates that they will soon improve their business, but if the bracelet appears broken, damaged, old, etc., it indicates that what they crave, no matter what it is, it will take a long time for them to achieve it. Dreaming that a bracelet is received, no matter why or how, indicates that some of your friends will help you if it’s necessary. However, if the bracelet is a gift, but appears broken or badly treated, it means hypocritical friendships that won’t help in anything….

Teeth

Dreaming of losing teeth indicates that humiliations and attacks to the dreamer’s pride and vanity are anticipated, and will lead to defeats and sadness due to fear of hunger, misery, and sadness. Dreaming of people’s healthy and beautiful teeth indicates good friendships. Dreaming of admiring your own teeth due to them being really white is a sign of vanity, but also of satisfaction because your dreams are about to be accomplished. Dreaming of dirty teeth that are not the dreamer’s, insinuates that the dreamer will have issues with other people and perhaps some illnesses. Dreaming of your own teeth being dirty, with cavities or being broken, indicates that your business or interests are not going well and requires all of your attention. This hints illnesses. Dreaming of brushing your teeth hints that you should make a maximum effort to recover lost time and values for your lack of dedication. Dreaming of having defective teeth from birth or crooked teeth is a bad dream because it insinuates that health and all of the dreamer’s affairs, business, interests and emotions go from bad to worse and will remain that way if they are not given immediate attention. Dreaming of spitting out your own teeth insinuates an imminent risk of disease, either your own or from a loved one. Dreaming of pulling out, extracting or losing a tooth and feeling the cavity with the tongue suggests that you are about to enter business matters that you won’t like. You will take them under consideration because they will seem promising, but eventually you’ll have to reject them. Teeth that are pulled by force always indicate all the dreamer’s unpleasant fears. To dream that by getting hit or by some other violent cause teeth are broken, it announces misfortunes and in some cases even near death experiences or at least heavy disappointments, large losses, catastrophic business etc. To dream that someone else’s teeth are pulled out announces bad news that can be personal or family misfortunes, or acts of false friendships that harm the dreamer. Dreaming of the dentist extracting the dreamer’s teeth symbolizes bad news and losses, for example, that the dreamer’s enemies await the opportunity to hurt him or her somehow. Dreaming that the dentist fixes the dreamer’s cavities suggests that soon the dreamer will recover affections or missing valuables. Dreaming of the dentist cleaning your own teeth and yet they remained dirty, and with cavities, etc., indicates that even if you think that your affairs are going well, they are actually not, and this misinterpretation represents a serious danger. Dreaming of dentures suggests that very soon, serious and difficult problems that cannot be ignored nor neglected will arrive. Dreaming of dog teeth is a symbol of sincerity, loyalty and good friendships, including love. Dreaming of lion or tiger teeth insinuates that the dreamer has full physical, mental and psychological self-control, allowing the dreamer to quickly achieve any goals in life….

Lock

Dreaming of a random lock suggests that the dreamer is neglecting issues that require urgent attention. Dreaming of a specific kind of lock suggests that the dreamer feels or is confused, disoriented, without knowing what to do or say. Dreaming of opening or moving a lock, suggests that through some effort the dreamer will overcome the things that malicious people who are seeking to harm him or her are doing, the same as in business or romantic relationships. Dreaming of not being able to open a lock means that it’ll be very difficult to overcome obstacles that appear in daily life. Dreaming of a damaged or broken lock means that the dreamer’s own health is being neglected or the health of a loved one is being neglected. Dreaming of keys to a door lock signifies surprises and changes in the dreamer’s life. Dreaming of searching for the keys of a door lock indicates that it is not the time yet to achieve whatever is desired. But if the dreamer is able to quickly find the keys then there will be success soon regarding business and relationships. Dreaming of damaged or broken keys or that the dreamer has lost the keys is negative, it implies that soon there will be family or business problems. A woman that dreams of losing the keys of trunks, jewelry boxes, etc., suggests that there will be upcoming difficulties at home or sentimental problems. A woman who dreams of a key attached to a door’s lock and it appears to be open, means that the woman wants the presence of someone. Dreaming of looking through the keyhole of a lock indicates the dreamer’s own indiscretion which can lead to unpleasant situations. Dreaming of people who are peering through the keyhole suggests that there are hypocrites and dishonest people around the dreamer who could hurt him or her….

Shoes

A young woman who dreams about other people who are admiring her new shoes must be cautious with new friends, especially men, when they approach her with unusual intimacy, since they could be hypocritical flatterers. When you are dreaming about shoes without any detail, then it shows changes in the immediate future. If the shoes are new, then it suggests that there will be financial gains soon. If they are old and broken, it means poverty. If the dreamer is working on shoes, it suggests someone is betraying her. When you are dreaming that you are shining your own shoes, then it represents about an upcoming improvements in issues, business, love, etc., all of which will bring satisfaction. When you are dreaming about yourself being with dirty, old or broken shoes, then it can mean that you easily make enemies due to your character and scathing criticism. When you are dreaming that you are with shoes that are too tight, then it can mean that there soon will be upsetting situations involving friends and family members; for example, that they will ridicule you in public through harsh and offensive criticism. When you are dreaming that you are with shoes that are tied or stuck to one another, then it symbolizes diverse arguments and material or health losses. When you are dreaming about losing your shoes, or that someone stole them from you, then it indicates losses of various kinds that unlikely will be recovered. If one has spare shoes in the dream, it can mean that the losses will not be permanent and that the dreamer will recover professionally, perhaps with new gains. When you are dreaming that you are wearing shoes of the opposite sex, then it can mean that your name and personality are being slandered and defamed. When you are dreaming about someone else who is wearing your shoes, then it warns you about a rival in your love life. When you are dreaming of yourself wearing a new pair of shoes, then it announces success and improvements in the matters that you are dealing with such as employment, or business. When we are dreaming about sneakers, then it warns us about the risk of making dangerous commitments, for example, relationships with untrustworthy people. If a woman dreams about her own shoes or sneakers as being very appealing and highly regarded by other people, then it is a warning about her flirtation, which, if not controlled, will cause her headaches and disrepute….

Rats – Mice

Dreaming of rats or mice is never pleasant, especially when this occurs frequently. This dream is a bad sign because it announces several misfortunes, among others, risks in your own health or in the health of loved ones. In some cases, it usually announces the start of infections. In any case, it always suggests problems at home, with family, with friends or neighbors, in business or employment. If the dreamer is involved in politics or complicated businesses, it means that there could be betrayals that will be dangerous, especially by those who are acting extremely giving and helpful. Dreaming of chasing a mouse or rat but having it escape, it could mean that problems will persist, although they are under control. Dreaming of killing a rat or a mouse signifies triumph over problems and enemies. When a woman dreams of rats or mice it might mean that she suspects of enemies that are hurting her, maybe by witchcraft. When a young woman dreams of mice, it’s a warning that she has enemies that talk poorly about her. If a woman, and worse if she’s young, dreams of a mouse on top of her clothes or dress, it could signify that her honor is at stake with the risk of being involved in a scandal caused by enemies. Dreaming of rats or mice announces that hypocrites are trying to harm the dreamer and will create problems with family or friends. Dreaming of catching mice or rats suggests that the dreamer has an advantage over his or her enemies, who they won’t be able to harm the dreamer. Dreaming of killing rats or mice suggests that the dreamer will defeat his or her enemies. Dreaming of catching mouse with a mousetrap suggests that enemies will stop but if the dreamer is the one who falls into the trap, then this could mean that the dreamer will be a victim of attacks, robbery, and intrigue. Dreaming of an empty mousetrap could mean that the people who are supposed to be enemies are not or that they don’t exist….

Mud

To dream that you’re walking in mud is a warning that due to misconduct your friends are discrediting you, what may cause your family feuds. To dream that others walk over or splash mud suggests that something unpleasant will happen to your family or friends. To dream that your clothes are stained with mud suggests that your reputation is in question, but if in such dream you’re able to clean your clothes, this indicates that you’ll succeed over gossip and intrigues against you….

Hearing

Dreaming of hearings can have two meanings. When the hearing is presided over by a minister, it presages mourning. On the contrary, if the hearing is presided over by a sovereign, it is a sign of profit….

Headache

It might reflect real pain and it’s that not the case it announces short-term problems but which are worrisome because they repeat over and over….

Crashing

Dreaming of driving a vehicle, such as a car, and hitting something with it, indicates uncontrolled aggression which can be very dangerous. It’s the constant obsession with something that always leads to unnecessary problems. Dreaming of crashing into something and almost hitting someone or almost being hit by another vehicle indicates that due to the dreamer’s misconduct, the dreamer’s activities are getting complicated and failing. Dreaming of being injured due to a crash or by being run over, indicates that soon the dreamer will face multiple failures and problems if the dreamer doesn’t correct his or her behavior. Dreaming of being saved from the crash or from being run over by one’s own merits indicates that through the dreamer’s skills and behavior any affairs that the dreamer might have will have a good outcome. Dreaming of witnessing a car crash and even worse being part of the car crash, is a warning that precautions need to be taken since the dreamer is at risk of suffering from an accident or from a very unpleasant surprise at work, business, or family and love relationships. A young woman that sees a crash of any type in her dream needs to take immediate and firm decisions concerning feelings because if not it could provoke issues between two men or between families….